Is it worth having conversations?
Why is it so important to support children in developing the ability to recognise, name and express feelings and emotions? Because emotions and feelings are like guests. Even if they come unannounced, let them in, allow them to sit down and tell us what has happened, listen to them, and they will leave after a while. If we refuse to let them in, if we don’t listen to them, they’re going to – especially the violent and difficult ones – bang on our door and windows, they’ll try to get into the cellar or squeeze themselves in through the chimney, and that will do no good, they’ll only cause destruction and problems.
How should we talk?
A conversation about emotions should take place at the right moment. But how do we create it? Let’s try to introduce such topics to our daily life instead of waiting for a crisis. Especially now, when we stay at home together and there’s a lot happening not only around us, but also inside of us. How do we do that? A good excuse to start talking about emotions are stories. Reading or listening to them quietens kids down and encourages them to talk. It’s worth matching the tale to the subject which we want to bring up – whether it’s gratitude, jealousy or perseverance when we fail.