Each of us assumes a role in everyday life. The way we understand it is often the result of our upbringing, but over time, we define the roles ourselves. We define what kind of a parent, partner and even child we want to be. What is it like in your home? Do you have a clear division into “male” and “female” tasks? Or is it rather variable? While spending time together at home, take a look at how you and other household members assume your roles and what you think you should and shouldn’t do. How should you start talking about it as a family?
Let’s take on different roles
Select one day for changing roles. Encourage other household members to imagine themselves in different, not necessarily obvious roles. Maybe someone would be willing to see what it’s like to be a cat? Or a dog? What sounds do they make? What are their favourite spots at home? What if mum becomes a child and the child takes on the role of grandad? How would you move if you were someone else? Maybe before dinner you will all play the roles of restaurant employees and then the roles of its guests? During the game, pay attention to your perceptions of given roles or characters. Exchange experiences, how do you feel in such a role? What’s cool about it and what’s not?